SOme movie on WE with a redhead and a guy taking a girl on a date. He was nice to her. The guy's name is Blaine. She doesn't want him to take her home. She was beating about it by saying she didn't want to go out or have him take her home. then she broke down saying she didn;t want him to take her home... because she didn't want him to see where she lived. When I first heard this I thought it was because she didn't want him stalking her. Well this is almost a paradox I had thought about when I was younger. Ok, say you are a guy that is trying to be nice but don;t have a lot of self confidence. If you suspect she will think of you as a stalker and not want you to see her house on the first date, you can be "appropriate" and expect this and say "If you don;t want me to see where you live yet, here is my cell phone, I can drop you off somewhere convenient." But if you say that, you loose posture and she gets the feeling that she should be wary of you for some reason. This is why you have to read body language and pick up on speech patterns to get a feel as to what the person means despite what they are saying.

It turns out she was probably embarrassed about the low income neighborhood she lived in and didn't want hm to judge her.