I may obsess over her until I find out something about her that cancels her. Her having a boy friend isn't one. If she's right, I can wait/ come back later when I am better prepared. But how do I become better prepared? One suggested idea was to be in a relationship and "see how you do". The key to that thoug is having been in a relationship with someone similar in expectations, mentality and or behaviors to her before. So should you be in relationships with all these different types of peiple just for the "experience"? It depends on if that is fair to the other person. Maybe they are the one. In my mind, if so, i'll come back when I'm 2g-27 if she's not taken and I can confidenlt sahy "I am sure you are for me" AND MEAN IT.... Because by then, hopefully I have tried different things and know what is best for me, know what to do and not to do. Obvious is a relative term I've found. But
I risk loosing the right girl to a guy that recognizes a good thing for him, perhaps not the best

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