Of course this isn't fool proof eithr because people lie and change. If your dream girl came up to you and asked if you wanted to "just fool around" or be "friends with benefits" because she's not ready for a real relationship yet, you'd probably say yes despite your desire to have a real relationship with her. Girls probably go through this more often than guys due to our cultural expectations and media right now. But doing this can emotionally scar someone. If one person gets scarred, the other may get scarred as well knowing they caused someone else to get hurt. So what do you do if someone says, "want to be friends with benefits?" maybe add "only if there is a good chance that if we hit it off that within [time frame] you'd make it a relationship meaning [conditions]." if it's more than the other person can agree to, then you've met them at the wrong point in their life. but agree
to something. Define what you have so something doesn't happen either of you aren't prepared for.

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